Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts

Thursday, 10 April 2014

Back with our Tugu family: 3 days until the wedding!

I cannot believe it- it's now 3 days until we get officially get married! Our friends and family are arriving from tomorrow and I'm feeling this deep pit of giddiness. We've been on Lombok now since Tuesday with my parents. I thought this place couldn't be any better or have a more personal place in my heart, but it has well and truly buried itself so much deeper in just two days. The people are calm, kind, innocent and happy- their smiles are infectious and their kindness melts the hearts of anyone they meet. We have been totally bowled over by all the preparations going on around us for the wedding and literally can't believe that this is all for little old us. I want to say - stop! Don't do any more for us! Let us do it all for you- but they are so excited themselves about the wedding and this being the first European one they have done along with the love story that comes with if, having got engaged here at their home only a year ago. 
The word wedding is on all their lips - we overhear their conversations and we are emotionally stunned that such love is being created for us. Our welcome was like coming back to long lost family, as the car pulled up, Hanny, Roshan, Robbie, Dessy and a couple more new faces rushed out, we were greeted with such warmth- hugs and handshakes and jaw aching smiles. Home made floral necklaces were hung around our necks, cold towels to press our excitable faces and fresh coconuts with the flesh all scraped out as they remembered them being my 'last years' obsession.
Anyway- I thought I would share some pictures with you of our trip to date so far. We are trying to make all our days as full and memorable as possible - getting up each morning for sunrise, walking the long stretch of white sands and talking to local children we meet, I even did yoga on the beach yesterday morning- moments that are etching so deeply into our memories. We have gone on a couple of trips to a local market and on a guided trip to a waterfall where we met a man named Ubud whose wife- two days previously had just given birth to his first son. In our disbelief the proud new father asked if we would come to his village, in to his home to meet his wife and two day old little boy. Precious moments that we could never have imagined we'd experience. He was so proud he also took us to meet the villages sacred goat- the biggest goat we'd ever seen and treated like a King! The village children chased us around- laughing and coming to hold our hands- they very rarely see white Europeans and this was such a novelty for them and a blessing for us. We have documented it all though video too and cannot wait to share this exotic paradisaical place with you.... But for now, enjoy and speak soon!  


Emi and Ports xxxx 






























Thursday, 20 February 2014

Wedding shoe dilemma!

So I have ummm'd and ahh'd about this for a while and want your advice! I have my first dress fitting imminently and I need to have some shoes to try on with my dress so that the length can be altered accordingly.

There are going to be two bits to our wedding, the marriage bit -which is going to be in an 11th century Buddhist temple just off the beach but open to all the elements and then the dinner/ dancing party bit on the beach after. So, I thought it would more sensible to wear a heel to start with and then maybe some embellished sandals or even some foot jewellery for the second we hit the beach.

I am tall anyway so I don't need a big heel and I don't want to be lumbering down the aisle holding on to my daddy's arm for dear life, probably sweating from all the heat and crying with all the emotion (painting a stunning image here). 

SO, I was thinking a kitten heel sandal style. At the end of the day, no ones going to really see my shoes as the dress will cover them anyway, but it would still be good to wear something nice! I'm only doing this ONCE after all.

Colour wise I was thinking silver as my engagement ring's platinum and any other jewellery I wear will be either pearl or silver. Saying that, if I did find some other shoes that were turquoise (my most favourite colour!) or gold, I wouldn't disregard them!
So, here's some current options... There's not that much in the shops at the moment as we're still in the midst of Winter but here goes:



Arial Art Deco by Rachel Simpson. I love these, I think they are so pretty and the detailing reminds me of fish scales which is very apt for the beach environment. They are leather too so hopefully my feel wouldn't sweat quite so much. They are £132 which is a little high, considering I will only be wearing them for a short while.

Hibiscus by Jimmy Choo These are very pretty, but for me they are unfortunately out of my price range at £525 and they don't have a back, which I know seems silly but I am just destined to fall out of something if it doesn't hold my foot in place!



Ridge by Jonak. These are £72 . 50, but via the website you get £10 off your first order which makes them very appealing. I think these are very feminine and being leather's a bonus too. They also come in gold.
Another pair of sandals by the same brand - Aorsade sandals by Jonak, £75. I think these are lovely too.  I just think they might be missing something, but not sure what exactly.

Gwynitta by Christian Louboutin at £495. Perfect if I was 5'2 but not at 5'8, unfortunately not practical at all with the beach environment, even though owning one of these red soled delights would be an almighty treat!

Elegant party heel by Boden. These are £110 which I think is quite expensive for what they are. I like the heel height but not to sure on the rest of them.

Heloise sandals by Dune. I think these are beautiful and such a good price at £59, but the heel's WAY too big for me unfortunately. They also come in a muted gold too which I really like.


Starfish white sandal by Aspiga, £75. I think these are so fitting with the environment and I love the beading on them. I don't think they are "bridal" enough but I would definitely love to wear them before and after the wedding as they're so unique!

Barefoot sandal from Passion Flower Jewellery So delicate and beautiful. £49.13 from Etsy.

Mckenzi bare foot bridal sandals. I love the colour and design of these and as my bridesmaid's are wearing a mint green this would actually be lovely. £53.64 from Etsy.



Arianna Cherry Blossom barefoot sandals. They are made with pearl and crystal flowers. At £145 these are expensive, however I do think that they are utterly beautiful and something you would keep forever.


Barefoot wedding sandals. I love these ones, the tiny pearls are so pretty and feminine. However these are $140! I am tempted to try and make some myself.

Pearl beaded handmade shoe clip by Rachel Simpson. I figure, if I do get a pair of plainer shoes I can always add something like this on? Although the £65 price tag's a lot!


I am still non the wiser on what I should go for, so please do let me know what you think! If  you know of anywhere else I should look I'd be so grateful to hear and in the mean time I'll keep looking.
Emi x

Thursday, 30 January 2014

Beautiful Beach Bridesmaids!

I am so lucky to have four blonde, drop dead gorgeous bridesmaids who are all such supportive and wonderful friends. From the moment Ports proposed to me last April and we decided that we were going to get married abroad I had the perfect image of dresses for them. 

Luckily for me they all 100% agreed and after a hell of a lot of internet trawling and shop searching I found the perfect dress which suits them all so beautifully and fits exactly with the beach scene. 

Back in December was probably the wrong time to be looking for a pastel coloured maxi dress as the shops and websites were swamped with dark berries and navy's and I was starting to feel a little worried. However, luckily for me the dress I'd seen frequently on Pinterest and other websites came back online suddenly one evening - whilst refreshing the page (and in a summer sale) so I managed to pick up four dresses for a very sweet deal, the same material and style as some dresses 4 times their price! 

Now we're in the New Year it seems the web's full of so many other "perfect" dresses, so I thought I would share what I have found with you all. . . just in case there are any other beach brides out there desperately searching for "the dress". 

Jarlo 
Jarlo
Misguided 
BHS
BHS 
BHS
Coast
Coast
Forever Unique
Virgos Lounge
Coast
Matthew Williamson
One of the dresses above is "the one" but I'll leave it to you all to guess which one!  

Emi x